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The epic struggle of mankind to figure out the inner working of women is ages old.Even freud,the master of modern psychology,died trying to figure out women.It isn't easy. I had a friend once joke with me that“man mostly want sex,woman want ...

How can you know the person you are dating is THE ONE? 　　Recently, a friend of mine told me she bought a popular magazine targeting younger women that had the headline "Is He Really The One?" She said it was the reason she bought the magazine,...

With Valentine’s Day at mid-month, February is the month of love and romance with cards, candy, flowers and gifts exchanged between loved ones. Love is everywhere. The language of love is universal. Amour, Amore, Amor, Liebe, Karlek, Mowg, L...

　　I used to be a shopaholic.　　How many of us can relate to that statement? Yet, when Saturday rolls around, off we go to the nearest boutique or shopping mall to buy more clothes, things, and possessions that we really aren‘t even sure we...

Our modern society is hooked on growth, an addiction that is difficult to cure. The old maxim that "hard work generates success" somehow got lost along the way and was replaced by "work smarter, not harder". For many business leaders, what starts ...

The lure of the lifestyleWe stopped at one particularly imposing custom-home still under construction, wondering about the future occupants. Where did this wealth come from? Although we love our home in a fairly nice neighborhood in San Diego, my ...

　　One of the requirements of every commencement speaker is that they offer some advice. Well, get ready, It here it comes.　　Soon you will be leaving the company of those who think they have all the answers-your professors, instructors and couns...

I am writing this the day before I know my fate-the day before I know the answer to what will happen in my life. I am writing this with my mind set that I will carry on and not let life pass me by. I am determined that I will see the world in ever...

　　Dreams! How nice do they sound? I am not talking about the dreams we have when we are asleep but about the life long aspirations in each one of us. I am sure many or rather shoud I say all of us have goals in our lives. It could be the goal to be...

　I was sitting on the beach the other day watching a kite (In the shape of a two winged aircraft) flying high in the sky. It made wonderful acrobatic maneuvers as if piloted by a person with a lifetimes experience of flying. However, we all know a ki...

Our life defines it! Yet we long for it, we think about it, we try to visualize it and we philosophize about it. We all have it in us to be one with God. We fail to notice it because we are so blinded by the matrix. We think that it is too high a goal ...

　Life is like a big swing, dangling between the depths of happiness and sadness. As soon as we descend down the slope of sadness, we accelerate over the ever-feel-good acclivity of happiness. At times of distress, when we are down we slip over an aby...

　　The greatest high in life is when u fall in love. Love, well u cannot snatch it, lock it or create it. It should come from within you. Being in love is an experience and only if u go through it u will know the intricacies of it. U feel your best ...

　Rules of credibility　　诚信的规则　　Progressive future and successful life require discipline and character. These things are embedded into the pattern of our lives through proper education and interaction with fellow human beings.　　A...

Think What You Are!　　Carbon and oxygen taken together, one atom each, gives you the deadly gas carbon monoxide. On the other hand, these very two elements on some other proportion provide us with carbon dioxide, the harmless gas. When these basic e...

Variety is the fuel for survival. Variety injects the fluid of creativity in the most barren of minds. To be grooved on to your POA of a successful career life, variety combined with flexibility to fit in changing circumstances is the major mantra...

　　Redifine Yourself　　How do you difine yourself? As a mother, father, daughter or any one of a myriad different titles? Or do you define yourself by other‘s perception of you? Do any of these come close to your own knowledge, your persona...

Mistakes　　Mistakes and errors are the disciplined true which we advance in life. Mistakes are great teachers. Success comes to those who are willing to risk making mistakes in the pursuit of their goals and aspirations, and who are able to learn fr...

　LONELINESS　　A man is known by the company he keeps they say. If it is so,then everyone is bound to have their baggage of loneliness with them as companions.loneliness is not something that doesn‘t exist at all with any human being on earth...