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An elderly carpenter was ready to retire.he told his employer contractor of his plans to leave the house building business and live a more leisurely life with his wife enjoying his extended family.He would miss the paycheck,but he needed to retire.They...

Feed Your Mind 充实你的思想　　Since the pre-historic times, man has had an urge to satisfy his needs. Be it hunger, shelter or search for a mate, he has always manipulated the circumstances to the best of his advantages. Probably this might be...

Our life defines it! Yet we long for it, we think about it, we try to visualize it and we philosophize about it. We all have it in us to be one with God. We fail to notice it because we are so blinded by the matrix. We think that it is too high a goal ...

　　Yesterday ,someone asked me what is the greatest skill for successful salesperson to possess.　　 I answered,“the ability to listen.“　　 He agreed with me.But the ability to listen isn’t only important in selling .It is als...

　SAND OR STONE 写在沙子或者石头上的话　　A story tells that two friends were walking through the desert. In a specific point of the journey they had an argument, and one friend slapped the other one in the face. The one who got slapped w...

　　Criticism can be of three kinds:　　1. That which is justified and fair.　　2. That which may be justified but is delivered in a hostile manner.　　3. The unjustified or brutal put-down.　　Most people react badly to all three types of cr...

　I was sitting on the beach the other day watching a kite (In the shape of a two winged aircraft) flying high in the sky. It made wonderful acrobatic maneuvers as if piloted by a person with a lifetimes experience of flying. However, we all know a ki...

WHEN POLLED ACROSS THE NATION AS TO: "What Brings HAPPINESS?"These EIGHT items were listed as NOT being of major importance to maintaining lasting happiness(the Eight Delusional Desires for Prosperity):1. Wealth2. Physical appearance3. Age4. Power/Infl...

Parenthood 　为人父母　　If it was going to be easy, it never would have started with something called labor!　　Shouting to make your children obey is like using the horn to steer your car, and you get about the same results.　　To be in yo...

　Last night , sitting by the window and gazing into the stars, I momentarily went back to my school days. I was just thinking why we are made to go to school and college and supposed to complete a particular course in a specific span of time. I mean ...

　　Dreams! How nice do they sound? I am not talking about the dreams we have when we are asleep but about the life long aspirations in each one of us. I am sure many or rather shoud I say all of us have goals in our lives. It could be the goal to be...

　　Laughter is a key to happiness　　Laughter is a key to happiness. Yep, in fact, laughter is the most important aspect to being happy -- no Prozac required! We often forget that laughter is a very essence of our spirit.　　Laughter relates to ...

Parenthood 　为人父母　　If it was going to be easy, it never would have started with something called labor!　　Shouting to make your children obey is like using the horn to steer your car, and you get about the same results.　　To be in yo...

　　Routines are the unwritten alogrithms,followed by each one of us,everyday in life.Routines is a chain of events,which never changes their order, once it is prioritized.Following the routines is a schedule of events.For a student it would be writi...

I am writing this the day before I know my fate-the day before I know the answer to what will happen in my life. I am writing this with my mind set that I will carry on and not let life pass me by. I am determined that I will see the world in ever...

FOUR FOOLPROOF WAYS TO IMPROVE OUR LIVES, TODAY　　当今改善我们生活的四种途径　　　So, my life is perfect. (Yeah.I wish!) Well, it isn‘t too bad. But can it be better? I‘ve been asking myself this question for several year...

Keep Your Cool　　Everyone would have heard the famous phrase " Anger is one short of danger".It is an age-old adage, but it is tested and still holds ture. Thing said or done during anger have created havoc with a lot of people and things. the tight...

　　One of the requirements of every commencement speaker is that they offer some advice. Well, get ready, It here it comes.　　Soon you will be leaving the company of those who think they have all the answers-your professors, instructors and couns...

　　The Meaning of Life　　The Meaning of Life is to L O V E.Someone told me I was crazy to try to describe the meaning of life. I replied that I‘m not crazy to suggest we can understand the meaning of life; when you think about it, the signs...